Hello, everyone. Today’s blog might seem a bit strange unless I give you a bit of background. Recently, I spoke in a religious setting about the importance of being lovingly honest and direct with one another if we want to build a healthy, trusting, supportive group. This went down very badly with some of those present. One, in particular, said we should be paying very little attention to our thoughts and feelings, but rather “deconstructing” ourselves, until there is nothing personal left at all. With this approach, feelings, thoughts and honesty have very little importance. Rather, they would be seen as childish and immature.
I do hope I’ve done justice to this man’s words. I thought about what he had said for a long time afterwards, and eventually wrote the prayer/poem below. Remembering that we can’t all think the same, do see what you think.
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Lord, you never said
We should detach ourselves from life;
You came so we can have life
To the full.
You never said
That we should deconstruct ourselves;
You came so we can have life
To the full.
You never said
Get rid of your emotions;
You loved, wept, raged –
And lived life to the full.
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I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full (John 10:10; NLT).
Jesus loved Martha, Mary and Lazarus (John 11:5; NLT).
Then Jesus wept (John 11:35; NLT).
When Jesus saw what was happening, he was angry (Mark 10:14; NLT).
He was in such agony of spirit that his sweat fell to the ground like great drops of blood (Luke 22:44; NLT).