Freedom


Facing the possibility that I might be autistic seems, at last, to be giving me real permission to be myself.

I have never understood what this might mean before. Rather, I have always consciously tried to say and do what I think others want or expect of me in all circumstances. I thought this was how most people managed to be a person, and to get through life – two tasks I have always found very difficult and demanding.

Only when absolutely necessary have I strongly asserted my personal opinions, choices, needs and boundaries. This means making a huge effort which bursts all my careful, ‘normal’, personal boundaries.

Perhaps, at last, I can start to discover what it means to be myself, rather than working so hard to shape myself around others all the time?

Anyway, on this theme, here is today’s blog, which came to me as soon as I started to pray early this morning.

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT; my emphasis).

If the Son sets you free, you are truly free (John 8:36; NLT).

Maybe it’s alright, Lord,
To be me?
Maybe you have come
To set me free?

Maybe I can be myself
At last?
Maybe I can throw away
My mask?

Maybe I can change?
Can life be good?
Is this what it means to
Live in love?

We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love. God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them (1 John 4:16; NLT).


A reading

He went to Nazareth, where he had been brought up, and on the Sabbath day he went into the synagogue, as was his custom. He stood up to read, and the scroll of the prophet Isaiah was handed to him. Unrolling it, he found the place where it is written: He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners and recovery of sight for the blind, to set the oppressed free, to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor (Luke 4:16-19; NIV).


Love the stranger


Love the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NKJV).

May the Lord make your love for one another and for all people grow and overflow (1 Thessalonians 3:12; NLT).

Love each stranger;
Love each neighbour;
Love each foreigner
And foe.

By doing this
We please our Maker
More than we
Will ever know.

Anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love (1 John 4:8; NLT).

The LORD detests the way of the wicked, but he loves those who pursue godliness (Proverbs 15:9; NLT).


References

Show your love for the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NASB20).

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT).

Show love to foreigners (Deuteronomy 10:19; NLT).

Love your enemies (Matthew 5:44; NLT).

If a stranger dwells with you in your land, you shall not mistreat him. The stranger who dwells among you shall be to you as one born among you, and you shall love him as yourself (Leviticus 19:33-4; NKJV).

Don’t forget to show hospitality to strangers, for some who have done this have entertained angels without realizing it! (Hebrews 13:3; NLT).


Reading: Matthew 25:34-40; NLT

Then the King will say to those on his right, “Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the Kingdom prepared for you from the creation of the world. For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.”

Then these righteous ones will reply, “Lord, when did we ever see you hungry and feed you? Or thirsty and give you something to drink? Or a stranger and show you hospitality? Or naked and give you clothing? When did we ever see you sick or in prison and visit you?”

And the King will say, “I tell you the truth, when you did it to one of the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were doing it to me!” (Matthew 25:34-40; NLT).


Further reading

Parable of the Good Samaritan: Luke 10:30-37; in any Bible translation.


Help and love


If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble (Ecclesiastes 4:10; NLT).

He knows how weak we are; he remembers we are only dust (Psalm 103:14; NLT).

We all need help from others,
And they need help from us –

Yet, God, we need your help as well,
For we are only dust.

We all need love from others,
And they need love from us –

Yet, God, we need your love as well:
In you alone we trust.

Love one another (1 John 2:7; NLT).

We know how much God loves us, and we have put our trust in his love (1 John 4:16; NLT).


References

The King will reply, “Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me” (Matthew 25:40; NIV).

He loves us with unfailing love; the LORD’s faithfulness endures forever (Psalm 117:2; NLT).

My help comes from the LORD, who made heaven and earth! (Psalm 121:2; NLT).

Help us, O LORD our God, for we trust in you alone (2 Chronicles 14:11; NLT).

The LORD is my strength and shield. I trust him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy (Psalm 28:7; NLT).


 

What happens after we die?


The dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it (Ecclesiastes 12:7; NIV).

This is what I believe will happen after we die:

  • At death we will leave our bodies behind on earth, and our souls will return to God who gave them.
  • We will be judged on how we lived, how we used the genetic inheritance, bodies, minds, hearts, gifts, talents, opportunities and difficulties God gave us.
  • We will also be judged on how we treated others.
  • No matter what we have done during our lives, God is still our soul.
  • God is One, and cannot be divided. God cannot not send part of themself into eternal separation from themself.
  • When we see God as God really is, we will be deeply awed. We will humbly confess, and bitterly repent of, everything we have done which has hurt God in others.
  • God will understand and forgive us all.
  • We will forgive those who have sinned against us.
  • We will be completely healed.
  • We will be reconciled with one another, and with God.
  • We will be one with God, and with each other.

He forgives all my sins and heals all my diseases. He redeems me from death and crowns me with love and tender mercies (Psalm 103:3-4; NLT).

I pray that they will all be one, just as you and I are one – as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me. I have given them the glory you gave me, so that they may be one as we are one (John 17:21-2; NLT). 


References

The LORD God formed man of the dust of the ground, and breathed into his nostrils the breath of life; and man became a living soul (Genesis 2:7; KJV).

I am God, and not man; the Holy One within thee (Hosea 11:9; BST).

The LORD our God, the LORD is one (Deuteronomy 6:4; NIV).

There is… one God and Father, who is over all and in all and living through all (Ephesians 4:5-6; NLT).

We are the temple of the living God (2 Corinthians 6:16; NLT).

Christ is all that matters, and he lives in all of us (Colossians 3:11; NLT).

Whatever you did not do for one of the least of these, you did not do for me (Matthew 25:25; NIV).

We will see him as he really is (1 John 3:2; NLT).

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness (John 1:9; NIV).

Suggested reading: Psalm 103.


 

Human gender


Humankind was created as God’s reflection: in the divine image God created them; female and male, God made them (Genesis 1:27; TIB). 

Introduction
Recently, in a split second, God showed me a fresh way of understanding human gender. This experience rocked me to the core, especially as I was very ill with covid at the time.

The creation of human beings
Until that day, I accepted that Genesis 1:27 (see above), regardless of translation, meant human beings were created either female or male, although I knew that, in reality, there are many exceptions to this general principle. Now, however, I saw that when creating us in the divine image, God makes each of us ‘female and male’, not ‘female or male’.

Embryonic development
Every human embryo starts with undifferentiated, bipotential genital structures, which have the potential to develop into either male or female sexual organs (“Sexual differentiation in humans”: Wikipedia). Only later in gestation do these structures generally become female or male. However, for about 1 in 300 babies, gender at birth is unclear, ambiguous, or hidden. This makes complete sense once we recognise that everyone is somewhere on a spectrum of feminine to masculine.

Oestrogen and testosterone
Furthermore, all adults manufacture both oestrogen and testosterone, both of which are essential to every aspect of our health, mood and functioning. Within each individual, these hormones are present in a personal, changing balance throughout life. Their ratio places us all on a gender continuum. Some of us incline more towards femininity, others, towards masculinity, regardless of our sexual organs. It is therefore essential to remember that we all have both feminine and masculine hormones.

We also need to be aware that ‘feminine’ and ‘masculine’ behaviours are largely learned from parental and societal assumptions, customs, expectations and pressures, which vary widely throughout the world. Seeing gender as a simple, absolute, binary split between female and male is therefore a social construct, unconsciously absorbed during childhood. Whatever gender we most strongly identify with, we are all both female and male – just like Yahweh (please see my top-level menu: ‘God’s gender’ for more information about this).

Conclusion
One final detail about my ‘human gender’ revelation continues to amaze me: God sent the prayer-poem below several hours before the insight described above! God really is amazing! So now, here is today’s prayer…


My dear friends, now we are God’s children, but it has not been revealed what we are to become in the future. We know that when it comes to light we will be like God, for we will see God as God really is (1 John 3:2; TIB).

Every child
Is your much-loved daughter,
And every child is your son –
So you want us all
To grow like Christ:
Our God, may your will be done!

Every adult:
Your precious daughter,
And every adult, your son –
So you long for us
To become like you:
Our God, may your kingdom come!

Gender: irrelevant!
You love all!
So let us make no mistake –
For your peace on earth
Is beyond our reach:
Until we love all, for your sake!

May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else, just as ours does for you (1 Thessalonians 3:12; NIV).


References

We will speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ (Ephesians 4:15; NLT).

In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus (Philippians 2:5; NIV).

Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ (Ephesians 5:2; NLT).

This will continue until we all come to such unity in our faith and knowledge of God’s Son that we will be mature in the Lord, measuring up to the full and complete standard of Christ (Ephesians 4:13; NLT).

May your Kingdom come soon. May your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven (Matthew 6:10; NLT).

Anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love (1 John 4:8; NLT).

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT).

Love the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NKJV).

Show love to foreigners (Deuteronomy 10:19; NLT).

Love your enemies (Matthew 5:44; NLT).


 

Hatred


Whenever we ‘Christians’ declare angrily, or self-righteously, that we hate others, we can be sure that we are not following Jesus, who taught that we are to love everyone, including our enemies.

So, whoever the targets of our hatred, prejudice, discrimination, rejection, exploitation, abuse, or violence are, for example:

Refugees
Immigrants
People whose faith is different from ours
People who speak a language different from ours
People whose skin is a different colour from ours
People whose gender is different from ours
People whose sexuality is different from ours
People who dress differently from us
People whose customs and values are different from ours
Poor people
Rich people
Unemployed people
Homeless people
Prisoners
Refugees
People who are different from us physically, mentally, intellectually, developmentally, emotionally, neurologically, or spiritually
Children
Politicians
Strangers
Foreigners
Enemies
Anyone at all

… we can be absolutely sure that we are not behaving like Christians, becauseGod is love.

God and Love are synonymous, inclusive and universal. Therefore, all hatred is incompatible with the Christian faith, as taught by Jesus, our Saviour and example.

Anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love (1 John 4:8; NLT).

Live a life filled with love, following the example of Christ (Ephesians 5:2; NLT).


References

He loves us with unfailing love; the LORD’s faithfulness endures forever (Psalm 117:2; NLT).

God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them (1 John 4:16; NLT).

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT).

Love the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NKJV).

Show love to foreigners (Deuteronomy 10:19; NLT).

Love your enemies (Matthew 5:44; NLT).

Love your enemies! Do good to them. Lend to them without expecting to be repaid. Then your reward from heaven will be very great, and you will truly be acting as children of the Most High, for he is kind to those who are unthankful and wicked (Luke 6:35; NLT).

Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. He causes his sun to rise on the evil and the good, and sends rain on the righteous and the unrighteous. If you love those who love you, what reward will you get? Are not even the tax collectors doing that? And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? Be perfect, therefore, as your heavenly Father is perfect (Matthew 5:44-8; NIV).

When they came to the place that is called called The Skull, there they crucified him… And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do” (Luke 23:33-4; ESV).

Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me (Matthew 25:40; NLT).


 

Evil


This stark prayer was given to me as soon as I started to pray this morning, and I knew I had to share it immediately.

Our world is now filled with people indulging hateful thoughts, writing and saying hateful things about others, and approving of, or carrying out, oppressive, abusive, hateful, cruel, violent and destructive deeds.

Many even appear to believe that God approves of such behaviour. As Jesus said, “The time is coming when those who kill you will think they are doing a holy service for God. This is because they have never known the Father or me” (John 16:2-3; NLT). Shocking words indeed.

However “religious” we think we are, and however fervently we pray, or preach, if we hate others we know nothing at all about God, for God is Love.

We cannot pick and choose which parts of Christ’s Gospel we want to apply to ourselves, and which parts we prefer to reject. So, here is today’s blog:

Deliver us from evil (Matthew 6:13; NLT).

Save us from indulging evil thoughts.
Save us from expressing evil words.
Save us from committing evil deeds.

Please help us to take captive every thought,
And make each one obedient to Christ,
For all who do not love do not know you.

Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love (1 John 4:8; NIV.


References

Take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5; NIV).

The words you speak come from the heart – that’s what defiles you. For from the heart come evil thoughts, murder, adultery, all sexual immorality, theft, lying, and slander. These are what defile you (Matthew 15:18-20; NLT).

Then the King will turn to those on the left and say… “I was hungry, and you didn’t feed me. I was thirsty, and you didn’t give me a drink. I was a stranger, and you didn’t invite me into your home. I was naked, and you didn’t give me clothing. I was sick and in prison, and you didn’t visit me.” Then they will reply, “Lord, when did we ever see you hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and not help you?“ And he will answer, “I tell you the truth, when you refused to help the least of these my brothers and sisters, you were refusing to help me” (Matthew 25:41-5; NLT).

May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else (1 Thessalonians 3:12; NIV).

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT).

Love the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NKJV).

Show love to foreigners (Deuteronomy 10:19; NLT).

Love your enemies (Matthew 5:44; NLT).


 

‘Splitting’ God


From the beginning till now the entire creation, as we know, has been groaning in one great act of giving birth (Romans 8:22; TIB).

Introduction
We should never be tempted to split God’s nature into ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ characteristics, despite strong historic, social and religious traditions of doing so.

This is because longstanding pressures to uphold male dominance can encourage us to embrace the aspects of God we see as ‘masculine’, whilst downplaying, or rejecting, those we see as ‘feminine’.

Consequences
In male-dominated societies, splitting God into ‘masculine’ and ‘feminine’ aspects tempts us to dismiss the ‘feminine’ as being inherently less valuable and less important than the ‘masculine’. Unfortunately, this has had disastrous consequences for many people’s lives:

-It leads to God being seen as overwhelmingly ‘male’ – an incalculable loss to humanity.
-It encourages the belief that men and boys are inherently superior to women and girls.
-It legitimises prejudice, discrimination, exploitation, exclusion and violence towards women and girls.
-It encourages men to believe they have the right to exercise their supposed ‘superiority’ over women with impunity.

The result has been that women have had to struggle against their supposed ‘inferiority’ throughout history, whilst being systematically denied the opportunities and freedoms which have given men educational, legal, employment and financial advantages.

Conclusion
Sadly, many people still cling tightly to the traditional concept of a wholly ‘masculine’ God.

Others acknowledge that God has some ‘feminine’ qualities, although these are generally considered insufficient to change their belief in God’s essential, overriding ‘masculinity’.

This means that in prayers, liturgies, hymns, Biblical translations, spiritual writings and much beyond, God is still traditionally conceived of, addressed, and referred to as an essentially ‘masculine’ Being.

However, when we grasp that God is One, and cannot be split in any way, all these false social, religious and linguistic dichotomies fall away forever. Then, at last, we begin to see God as God really is.

The LORD our God, the LORD is one (Deuteronomy 6:4, NLT).

We will see God as God really is (1 John 3:2; TIB).


References

Naked I came from my mother’s womb, and naked I shall return there (Job 1:21; LSB).

The dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it (Ecclesiastes 12:7; NIV).

The Almighty …will bless you with blessings of heaven above, blessings of the deep that lies beneath, blessings of the breasts and of the womb (Genesis 49:25; NKJV).

Who kept the sea inside its boundaries as it burst from the womb, and as I clothed it with clouds and wrapped it in thick darkness? (Job 38:8-9; NLT).

Before the mountains were born, before you gave birth to the earth and the world, from beginning to end, you are God (Psalm 90:2; NLT).

All creation has been groaning as in the pains of childbirth right up to the present time (Romans 8:22; NLT).

Will I, who causes others to give birth, not also give birth myself, says the Lord? Will I, who bestows generation upon others, be barren myself, says the Lord your God? (Isaiah 66:9; CPDV).

For a long time I have kept silent, I have been quiet and held myself back. But now, like a woman in childbirth, I cry out, I gasp and pant (Isaiah 42:14; NIV).

As a mother consoles a child, so I will console you (Isaiah 66:13; NET).

Then YHWH came down in a cloud and stood before Moses to proclaim the divine Name, I AM. And YHWH passed before Moses, proclaiming, “I AM! I am God, YHWH, compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abundant in kindness and faithfulness; faithful to the thousandth generation, forgiving injustice, rebellion and sin; yet not leaving the guilty unpunished, calling the children and grandchildren to account for the sins of their ancestors, to the third and fourth generation!” (Exodus 34:5-7; TIB).


 

Arrow prayers


If you would like to read more about arrow prayers, there is a short article: here

When you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words (Matthew 6:7; NIV).

We don’t need many words, just:
Yahweh, help me!
Heal me! Please forgive me!
Love me, too!

We don’t need many words, just:
Jesus, help them!
Heal them! Please forgive them!
Love them, too!

We don’t need many words, just:
Spirit, help us!
Heal us! Please forgive us!
Love us, too!

He loves us with unfailing love (Psalm 117:2; NLT).


References

I urge you, first of all, to pray for all people. Ask God to help them, intercede on their behalf, and give thanks for them (1 Timothy 2:1; NLT).

Pray in the Spirit at all times and on every occasion (Ephesians 6:18; NLT).


 

Justice and peace


If only you had paid attention to my commandments! Your peace would have been like a river, and your justice would have been like the waves of the sea (Isaiah 48:18; CPDV).

I pray for justice, and for peace,
So all our selfish wars will cease.

I pray for kindness, help and care
In every heart, so all will share.

I pray that we will live as friends,
So all abuse and conflict ends.

I pray for truth and joy to flood
Each soul, so all will live in love.

May the Lord make your love increase and overflow for each other and for everyone else (1 Thessalonians 3:12; NIV).

No one has ever seen God. But if we love each other, God lives in us, and his love is brought to full expression in us (1 John 4:12; NLT).


References

Love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18; NLT).

Love the stranger (Deuteronomy 10:19; NKJV).

Show love to foreigners (Deuteronomy 10:19; NLT).

Love your enemies (Matthew 5:44; NLT).

The Spirit is truth (1 John 5:6; NKJV).

Anyone who does not love does not know God, for God is love (1 John 4:7; NLT).

God is love, and all who live in love live in God, and God lives in them (1 John 4:16; NLT).